"what would you do in kink if you weren’t afraid?"
In generally...
while I have become much more comfortable in my truth and sexuality, it is still difficult for me to trust people with the more vulnerable parts of myself, especially when it comes to being trans and wanting more fluidity in how I express myself during sex.
It's why I move at a glacier's pace when dating and incredibly picky on who to be intimate with, taking time to feel people out, that they don't see me as just AGAB [Assigned Gender at Birth] Lite or something.